Everyone of us need validation from time to time to make us feel loved, treasured, worthy, appreciated and most important it proof our existence in someone’s life. No one can would dare to say out loud that they don’t need validation because then we are lying to ourselves because no matter how strong, tough and independent we are, we all need and want to feel important and matter to people we love. Some people are lucky as they have someone in their life to provide validation to them, but some are not so fortunate or yet to be that fortunate to have someone in their life that will validate them. Don’t feel bad for yourself just because you don’t have someone to validate you. It is a good feeling to be validated, but it isn’t the end of the world if you don’t get it.
If you ever feel down just because you don’t receive validation from people that you want to receive it from, just look back in your life and remember all the things you had achieved in life and how far you had walked from your past to your present. Remember all the battles you had fought and won. If you still need validation, then the validation should just come from 1 important person in your life – YOURSELF!!!
We ourselves are the most reliable and important person to validate our existence. We ourselves are the most dependable person in the entire world. We need to learn to validate ourselves before we look for validation from other people. We have to be our own cheerleader and biggest supporter because if we don’t then we will always be chasing for validation from people that might or might not give us.
Learn to give yourself what you want before you seek it from other people. If you get it from other people it will be bonus. If you don’t, then you will not be sad or disappointed because you have already VALIDATED YOURSELF :-)!!